Solutions 4 Everyday Life: Five Stages of Grief

Five Stages of Grief

What makes a relationship or marriage successful

Dr. Milton Erickson's early findings on Family Therapy, Brief Therapy, NLP and Hypnotherapy are the basis for studies of Tony Robbins' research to the "The Six Human Need Psychology". Knowing your top two basic human needs are directly related to what makes a relationship work. Once you know your basic human needs and your partner's then you can fulfill each other's needs at the deeper level leading to a happy long lasting relationship.

4 Stages of Love according to my coach Tony Robbins

What Motivates You? What is it that motivates you at the deeper level in life?

The question is..  What is it that motivates you at the deeper level in life?

You have dreams for your kids and family life, you have dreams for your love life, you have dreams for career and becoming financially independent, and we have dreams about our health. But why is it that sometimes no matter how hard we try but still don’t reach the level of success we want to enjoy? The biggest reason is knowing your core values.

What are life values? For most of us we are not trained to identify our values in life.  Do you know what you value in life? Is it family, children, honesty, loyalty, spirituality, friendship, courage, being on time, and so forth. It is important to carefully consider your values for several reasons.

1.      They could guide your life minute by minute towards your goals, rather than your life being controlled by your bad habits, impulses or emotions. Values give you a road map of where you want to go. A clear precise direction.

2.      Values can not only guide but inspire and motivate you, giving the energy and zest for doing something great and meaningful. It’s a motivation level that stays with you permanently. Waking up in the morning with full excitement and willing to take on the world’s challenge.

 

For example : I value in life. Family, fitness, helping others bring significant to their life, loyalty, getting things done ontime, recognition, good listening, open communication, understanding.

When we don’t know our core values then we aimlessly wonder following some one else’s dream because it looks good on the outside. That’s when we create conflicts inside of us, because our actions are not the reflection of our values.

Once you identify your values then you can set your goals to accomplish them. The goals that are right for you and your lifestyle.  

If you need help finding your motivation level and start taking some actions in your life please contact me at marynawabi@gmail.com and I will help you set up a complimentary session.