How to talk about sex with your children!!!

If you are not talking about sex to your children, someone else is and that person may not be the right source to get guidance from for your children. Children need to trust you as their primary source of guidance. As kids continue to understand and experience their bodies, and the physical changes of puberty emerge, your attitude and acceptance will continue to play an important role in their healthy development.

As kids mature sexually, they're often both excited and scared about growing up — especially when they notice hair growing in new places, get their periods, or start having wet dreams. They spend a lot of time wondering if they're "normal" and comparing themselves with their friends. Kids — especially early and late bloomers — need lots of reassurance as they head into this uncharted territory.

Puberty can be a very confusing time, with lots of physical and emotional changes, and kids need to know what to expect in the months and years ahead, even if they're too shy to ask.

By being open to your young child's questions about bodies, babies, love, and sex, you set the stage for continued conversations and openness when puberty begins. Welcoming the questions about your child's changing body and sexual issues — and not treating them as dirty or embarrassing subjects — will help foster a healthy sense of self-acceptance in your child. It also makes it more likely your child will use you as a resource for information and guidance.

Mary Nawabi

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What Motivates You? What is it that motivates you at the deeper level in life?

The question is..  What is it that motivates you at the deeper level in life?

You have dreams for your kids and family life, you have dreams for your love life, you have dreams for career and becoming financially independent, and we have dreams about our health. But why is it that sometimes no matter how hard we try but still don’t reach the level of success we want to enjoy? The biggest reason is knowing your core values.

What are life values? For most of us we are not trained to identify our values in life.  Do you know what you value in life? Is it family, children, honesty, loyalty, spirituality, friendship, courage, being on time, and so forth. It is important to carefully consider your values for several reasons.

1.      They could guide your life minute by minute towards your goals, rather than your life being controlled by your bad habits, impulses or emotions. Values give you a road map of where you want to go. A clear precise direction.

2.      Values can not only guide but inspire and motivate you, giving the energy and zest for doing something great and meaningful. It’s a motivation level that stays with you permanently. Waking up in the morning with full excitement and willing to take on the world’s challenge.

 

For example : I value in life. Family, fitness, helping others bring significant to their life, loyalty, getting things done ontime, recognition, good listening, open communication, understanding.

When we don’t know our core values then we aimlessly wonder following some one else’s dream because it looks good on the outside. That’s when we create conflicts inside of us, because our actions are not the reflection of our values.

Once you identify your values then you can set your goals to accomplish them. The goals that are right for you and your lifestyle.  

If you need help finding your motivation level and start taking some actions in your life please contact me at marynawabi@gmail.com and I will help you set up a complimentary session.